Frequently Asked Questions about domestic violence

These are some of the most common questions people ask about domestic violence. If you have a question that is not answered here please contact Southampton Domestic Violence Forum c/o Safer Communities Team (community.safety@southampton.gov.uk).

You can also see the following booklets for more details about how to stay safe and who you can contact locally and nationally for advice, they are available on the right hand side of this and every page in this section:

Domestic Violence Handbook 2007 - this is a practical guide to help people who are experiencing or have experienced domestic violence and abuse.

Domestic Violence Directory 2006 - this is a more detailed directory of local and national services that may be useful for services.

A take-away card which gives brief details of where help can be sought is also available. This is available in council reception areas or call 023 8083 3071 or email community.safety@southampton.gov.uk for a copy.

Sources - The answers to these questions have been taken from the Domestic Violence Handbook 2007 and the Women's Aid website. Please see the links on the right hand side of this page.

1. What is domestic violence?

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2. Where can I get help and support?

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3. Who can I contact if I am black, or from an ethnic minority, or I am a refugee and I am experiencing domestic violence?

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4. Where can men go for advice about domestic violence?

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5. How can I help a friend or family member who I know is experiencing domestic violence?

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6. My children and I cannot live at home anymore for our own safety, where can we find somewhere safe to stay?

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7. Where can I go if I am disabled and experience domestic violence?

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8. I am a young person, where can I get help about domestic violence?

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9. Are there services for people experiencing domestic violence in same sex relationships?

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10. Where can older people get advice about domestic violence?

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